What’s Dating Like as a Pornstar ft. Jkab Ethan Dale
A behind-the-scenes look at his online life.
In the world of gay porn, some performers are unforgettable… not just for what they do on screen, but for who they are when the cameras stop rolling. Jkab Ethan Dale is one of those rare stars.
Known for his fearless scenes, magnetic presence, and an honesty that blurs the line between fantasy and reality, he’s a man who understands both the performance of sex and the intimacy of connection.
But what does dating look like when your job is to turn strangers on for a living?
We sat down with Jkab to talk about love, lust, and life beyond the set; and let’s just say, his answers are as unfiltered as his films.
When you meet someone new, do they see Jkab Ethan Dale first or the person behind the stage name?
Honestly, some people see Jkab Ethan Dale first.
It comes with the territory, but those who stick around realise I’m just a goofball, who loves good food, good sex, and quality time.
The stage name is just a piece of me.
What’s the biggest misconception people have about dating a porn star?
That we are emotionally unavailable, we can’t be loyal, and that we are always looking for sex.
People assume we can’t make deep emotional connections because our work revolves around sex. I want the same thing most people do: trust and connection.
Has your on-camera experience ever made dating harder instead of easier?
It made it harder because of the negative stigma against sex workers.
Some people can’t get past their prejudice and the misconceptions around us, or their own insecurities.
Do you prefer partners who are in the industry or completely outside it?
I do not have a hard rule. There are people in and out of the industry that are not emotionally mature, so it is more dependent on the person.
I want a partner who is confident in our relationship, able to communicate well, and works together to make sure we both feel loved and that we are each other’s number one.
How do you balance performing for fantasy with finding real intimacy?
It’s all about intention. On set, my job is to create a fantasy for the viewer. My intention is to please others, which is a big turn on for me. I love doing it.
When it comes to intimacy at home, it’s about connecting, closeness, affection and variety beyond sex with the other person. It isn’t about the camera.
What’s a date night that turns you on more than any scene you’ve shot?
A night cooking at home together, laughing and forgetting about the time.
A date night where I feel a true connection, where I feel desired as ME, that turns intimate and sexual beats any scene I’ve done.
Have you ever had a fan try to turn a date into a live porn scene?
I have to admit, I enjoy fucking at sex parties where people end up watching, and have found out afterwards that the person I was putting on the show with was a fan. Does that count?
How do you keep personal sex and work sex feeling different?
Boundaries keep it healthy.
Work sex is technical. We have to worry about lighting, timing, and performance. Personal sex is about being present, vulnerable, and not worrying about how it looks.
Has being a performer taught you anything surprising about love or relationships?
Honesty and communication is everything. On set, you have to communicate boundaries, and consent. You can’t be afraid to be direct about what you need. The same applies for relationships.
What’s the most romantic thing someone’s ever done for you - on or off set?
Bought me a double cheeseburger after bottoming. I was so turned on.
- X: @jkabethandale
- IG: @jkabobs
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