Looking for a sex party in London?
Check out some of the available options.
If you like a night out that includes a bit of a sexed-up vibe, then London’s sex parties and club nights are probably going to be high on your list of priorities.
There’s something pretty special about getting naked in club and getting off with guys you’ve never met before and are unlikely to ever see again.
Hard On
Hard On generally do a monthly club night.
Their next event will be on 15 March at Union in Vauxhall. The energy at a Hard On club night is pretty electric – music, dancing, men, sex.
If you want a behind-the-scenes look at Hard On, check out our interview with Suzie Krueger for the Naked Men Talking podcast. We talk fetish dress codes, sexual liberty, communal sexual energy, and Suzie shares her insights into men and masculinity.
Jamie HP
Jamie HP are known for their weekly events. Their main venue is Union in Vauxhall.
They have a Saturday night party and also a Sunday afternoon party.
Cruise
Presented by Gaydar at Bunker Bar, Cruise is a quarterly sex-positive party that explores kinks and man-on-man intimacy and encounters.
Bunker Bar is a sex-on-premises venue. There's a bar, changing room, coat-check, and various play-spaces to explore.
The next Cruise event will be on Saturday, 29 March.
London Fetish Week
Fetish Week London is an annual event that takes place each summer - it's one of Europe’s major celebrations of all things kink.
What I love about Fetish Week London is that whatever kind of fetish you’re into, you’re bound to find something within Fetish Week that will rock your boat. It’s also a great time to experiment, to try something new, and to socialise with some fellow kinksters.
Fetish Week London is a massive kink-fest – a week of total filth that the sex-positive guys always look forward to.
What happens at a sex party?
Different parties in different cities will each have a bit of a unique kind of vibe. The main thing is to go with an open mind and take your lead from what’s happening around.
Dress Code
Getting the dress code right is a fairly important first step when you’re contemplating a sex party. You might not be allowed to enter if you don’t comply with the required dress code.
Some parties are fairly relaxed about dress code, whereas others take it very seriously.
If you’re unsure if your leather harness is going to cut it with the door-bitch, check out the organiser’s social media and see if you can get a sense of the level of outfit or fetish-wear that will be expected.
For any sort of sex party, you’re generally going to want to wear something that has a bit of a fetish edge. That could be as simple as a jockstrap and a harness, or you might need to invest in something more.
Who goes to sex parties?
The great thing about club-based sex parties in cities such as London is that they attract a pretty diverse bunch of guys. You’ll see all ages – usually early-20s and upwards – and you’ll see all body types, personalities, and fetish.
You generally don’t get a lot of attitude at sex parties – everyone is up for a bit of fun and some great music.
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